Everyone has access to word processing, so it has become de rigueur for the family scribe to compose these little annual histories, like newsletters, printed with festive little borders and using special gothic fonts. We got a dozen or so, ranging from the barely readable to the mildly informative to the ludicrous. When the authors sit-down to write a Christmas Letter, they presumably do so out of an urge to recap the year of pertinent news for friends whom they have not had regular contact with. But by the third sentence they start channeling Walter Cronkite, announcing each mundane event as if it were late-breaking need-to-know news.
"Trish said her first word in February. It was "Dlurb"
"Thor, our new pucker doodle puppy, ate mom's favorite pink bunny slipper."
While I am sure these memories are precious, I wonder if they need to be shared with the World. Sometimes, they can unintentionally reveal too much information.
"Slippery fingers Jill dropped a gallon jug of K-Y Jelly on my toe and I was limping around for a month."Does anyone really like to get these smarmy, self-satisfied, impersonal missives? I don't think so. The mistake most amateur writers make is that their prime motivation is to tell you something positive about themselves. They incorrectly think that you are interested in their wonderful lives, so they selectively pick-out what they think is the most enviable moments. They believe themselves to be informative and entertaining, I guess.
The truth is, we are more entertained by accounts of ruined parties - where uncle Jack got drunk and fell off the chair - than we are about perfectly planned parties where the food was perfectly cooked and everyone exchanged pleasant dinner conversation. We don't want to hear you gush about your luxurious river cruise down the Seine, we want to hear about your miserable air travel hassles "And little Bernie screamed all the way from Paris to Rome! It was awful." We wallow in your misery.
Christmas Letter authors ought to be more caring and tuned-in to their audience. Instead of crowing about what a great year you have had, describe some of the hilariously crappy moments. Instead of striving to make your recipients wish they were you, give them the gift of being happy with their own lot in life - make them glad they aren't you.
Here are some ideas to get you started on a more interesting Christmas Letter next year:
"Melvin lost most of our nestegg investing in mink farms. What an Idiot. I should have married...."
"One of the neighbors tipped-off the cops and they confiscated my whole crop of weed...."
"Alice is pregnant again. She was featured on the Maury show to determine who the dad is....."
" Irving saved money by spreading lime on the front himself. Except that he mistakenly loaded up the spreader with rock salt..."
"Publishers Clearing house knocked on the door, but no one was home...."
You get the idea.
** Disclaimer: Except for George, no one who reads this blog sent one of the Christmas Letters described in the piece.
