In Lynn, Mass., 29 teens have been suspended because of a fight a few days ago, where no weapons were involved, and neither of the female combatants was seriously injured. One of the girls had allegedly called the other one a "whore".
Someone had the bright idea to videotape the after-school affair, and post it on Facebook. Authorities got involved. Now, the the combatants may be facing criminal charges, and the onlookers are punished with suspensions because they did not step-in to stop the fighting. Huh? I always thought the famous Seinfeld episode -where the callow friends were tried for not interfering with a carjacking-- was based on fictitious legal grounds..
I did not realize that two kids (minors) duking-it-out in a fair fight was a criminal offense. This is the way the world has worked since schoolyards were invented. It is the natural way for most living creatures to resolve conflicts of turf, romance and dignity. Yes, someone always gets hurt, maybe even bloodied. Someone wins and someone loses. And often, the former enemies - who have gained respect for each other in combat - become bonded friends. The use of weapons is not acceptable of course, but 1 on 1 fighting with fists of evenly matched opponents rarely results in serious harm.
In today's bubble-boy mentality, even the spectators are considered guilty. What about people who attend boxing matches, wrestling, hockey games? Are we obligated to run out on the ice and break up any altercations lest someone get a bloody nose?
I fear that we are becoming a nation of wusses - in a world where there are some pretty tough players. The horror which should be reserved for gun-toting shooters seems to be directed at the Lynn kids who were doing what kids do: working through an unsettling rite of passage.
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Huh? Fighting is fine as long as weapons aren't used? Don't you think those gun-toting teenagers roaming our streets looking for rivals to shoot might have started out just this way before escalating to more lethal actions? Sorry, condoning a schoolyard fight that didn't result in any serious injury (although the smashing of a head into a rock wall seems just a bit dangerous) is not a sensible position. True, we'll never stop this behavior, but to condone it is at best short-sighted, and at worst idiotic, you bloviating, mealy-mouthed, whore monger. And if that description bothers you, I'll meet you behind the Firebox BBQ on the 20th, or 21st, or any other date convenient for you to get a wupping ... and some ribs, of course.
I am confident that I can knock you on your ass --just yanking on one of your crutches!
If you prefer a society of girly-men, you can continue your pansy-assed handwringing and self-flagellation.
Some disputes still need to be settled the old-fashioned way.
(Slaps Rick's face with glove)
Stand and deliver!
I think an old-fashioned would be a manly way to settle this. Your serve.
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